Hey Lovelies,
I hope everyone is having a great month so far? This month
has been crazy busy for me as I am in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU), even
slightly worse this week because I am on night float.
If you have ever been in the ICU or have ever visited anyone
(friends or family), you will know that it can potentially make you sad. While
on my night shift today, after rounding on some of my patients, I sat down and
thought for quite some time. I thought about a lot of things; life, family, friends,
my patients (if they'd ever recover, etc), and if I enjoy what I do. I also
remembered a video that I had seen a long time ago and thought I'd share.
We can all agree that life is beautiful. It is the most
amazing thing to wake up every morning in good health, have a job to go to,
call our families who are in good health, kiss our children good bye, etc.
While some people might have things
going great, there are also a large amount of people who are going
through some type of stress, sadness, health issues, and some type of suffering.
Continue to read...
Truth is, we are all faced with something in our lives that
we wish could be different. It can be anything from unemployment, to receiving
some bad news, to a sick family member, or a not having enough money to pay
bills, or being stuck in a bad marriage, or loss of a loved one, or wishing
we could look one way or another.
Even though these problems might not directly affect us, I
believe we can make the next person feel better. Remember, it is the little
things that matter the most. "A smile". "How are you?"
"Would you like a cup of water?" "Please". "Thank
you". "You look great!" "I am sorry". "I love
you". "How can I help you?"
Being in the ICU constantly reminds me that life is not
guaranteed, even in the next minute. Sometimes, I care for patients all day,
who are relatively stable, only to come back the next morning and hear they had
passed away minutes after I left. Even though I feel sad and know that we did
the best we could, sometimes it makes me feel a liiiiiiiiiittttttlllllle bit better remembering the "little"
things I tried to do for that patient during the day.
The point I am trying to get across is that we should try to
make a difference, to someone, everyday. You never know how much the little time
you take out to call someone, compliment them, or show kindness, can go a long
way to change a person's situation or state of mind.
Like it states at the end of the video "If you could
stand in someone's shoes, Hear what they hear, see what they see, feel what
they feel, Would you treat them differently?
Let us be more loving to one another...
Love,
Gucci.
Video credit: Cleveland Clinic
Great write up. I read your blog but never comment but this touched me. Keep up the good work.
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